Anyone with Herpes must be prepared for rejection when informing their love interest of their affliction.
This is hurtful but don't spend much time feeling hurt because the person who rejects you for that reason probably wasn't worth your while and it's a good thing it happened. Not only can you move on to greener grass, you have the experience and will deal better with it next time.
The best option for finding a potential love interest doesn't rest with the general public but with a match making or dating site specifically made for people with herpes and other sexually transmitted diseases. There are many sites and most offer two types of plans.
The free sign up plan on a STD dating web site just takes a few moments and you'll be able to start searching for suitable matches in your area or any area you look in. The free plans will limit your access to other parts of their website that offer forums or chat rooms, informative articles about your STD and other premium services that the site must charge for to stay in business.
Try out the free sections on the STD Dating website and get a feel for the worthiness of their site. When you feel comfortable that it's a site that will help you find dates, then consider joining it as a paid member to get the full benefits from it. Using a STD Dating website makes sense because everyone who belongs is in the same boat as yourself and it takes the issue off the table enabling both parties to be themselves and really get to know each other.
A meaningful and lifelong love relationship can be yours if you know where to look. Don't think you're all alone just because you have herpes. There are thousands of people in your area with herpes looking for you. All you need is a place where you can find and meet them and an online dating website just for you is what you need.